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LIVING MY SHADOWS

Your past is part of your story—not the end of it.

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LIVINGMYSHADOWS

Your past is part of your story—
not the end of it.

ASK A QUESTION

What are you dealing with?

🔒 Prototype note: questions are stored only on this device unless you choose to save them.

I'm an Adoptee

Identity, birth family, records, reunion and belonging.

I'm in Foster Care

Placements, caseworkers, school, siblings, rights and support.

I Was in Foster Care

Records, aging out, housing, education, work and reconnecting.

Questions About My Past

People, places, memories and unanswered questions.

My Journey

Your personal dashboard brings your story, questions, resources, and reading together.
Need immediate help?
In the U.S., call or text 988 for crisis support. If there is immediate danger, call 911.

My Journey

A personal place to pick up where you left off.

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What are you going through?

You can ask about adoption, foster care, your past, family, records, aging out, relationships, or moving forward.

Living My Shadows Ask Guide
Ask in your own words. Signed-in questions use the secure AI guide and your saved state to match relevant verified resources.
● Live AI when signed in
Information notice: Living My Shadows provides general information and support. It does not replace a lawyer, doctor, therapist, caseworker, or emergency service. Laws, record access, benefits, and services can differ by state and individual situation.
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How recommendations work
  • Your question is matched to topics such as records, family search, aging out, education, housing, legal help, or mental-health support.
  • Your saved state is used when available.
  • Official or federally maintained resources are prioritized and the verification date is shown.
Important: Living My Shadows provides general information and support—not legal, medical, mental-health, case-management, or emergency advice. For urgent crisis support in the U.S., call or text 988. For immediate danger, call 911.

Notifications

Stay connected

New personal-response questions and completed answers appear here. Notifications are private to your signed-in account.

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Personal Q&A

My submitted questions

Questions you intentionally submit for a personal response appear here. Your private AI conversations are not automatically shared.

My Story

🔒 This is your private space.

In this prototype, entries are saved in your browser on this device. Production would need stronger security and account controls.

My TimelineImportant dates and milestones.
PlacementsFoster homes, group homes, shelters, adoption.
PeopleFamily, friends, mentors and people who mattered.
MemoriesSave a memory or something you do not want to forget.
Unanswered QuestionsWrite down questions you still carry.
JournalWrite your thoughts and reflections.

Timeline

Verified Resources

✓ Nationwide directory: all 50 states + Washington, D.C. are available. The Ask guide now matches questions to these resources by topic and profile state. Official and federally maintained sources are prioritized; entries show the date checked.

Books & Reading

Your published books appear below. If cloud access is temporarily unavailable, the app still shows the two published titles and their Amazon links.

Stories, guidance & lived experience

Explore books selected for adoptees, current and former foster youth, families, and supporters.

Privacy & Security

Your story belongs to you

Living My Shadows is designed to minimize unnecessary sharing of sensitive adoption, foster-care, family, and personal-history information.

What the app may store

If you create an account, the app may store your profile, My Story entries, saved Ask answers, saved resources, personal-response questions, notifications, and preferences in the Living My Shadows cloud database. Some prototype preferences and recent conversation history may also be stored in your browser on the device you are using.

What is private

Your ordinary Ask conversations are not automatically sent to the administrator. A question is shared for a personal response only when you intentionally choose Ask for Personal Response. Private story data is protected by account-level database permissions.

What to avoid sharing

Do not enter passwords, Social Security numbers, full financial account numbers, or other secrets. If you are a minor, avoid sharing precise location, school schedule, placement address, or private identifying information with unknown people.

Your choices

You can sign out, export story data, delete local device data, and request deletion of cloud account data. Production release should include a complete published privacy policy, contact process, retention rules, and any legally required parental-consent workflow.

Terms of Use

Important use notice

Living My Shadows provides general information, lived-experience support, resource navigation, and AI-assisted guidance. It is not a law firm, medical provider, therapist, child-welfare agency, caseworker, emergency service, or government records office.

Information can vary

Adoption records, foster-care rights, benefits, court processes, and services can vary by state, county, age, case type, and individual circumstances. Verify important decisions with the appropriate official agency or qualified professional.

AI and personal responses

AI-generated answers may be incomplete or incorrect. Administrator personal responses reflect lived experience and general guidance and are not professional legal, medical, mental-health, or case-management advice.

Respectful use

Do not use the app to threaten, exploit, harass, impersonate, solicit minors, expose another person's private information, or encourage unsafe contact. Access may be limited or removed for harmful misuse.

Age

This prototype is intended for people age 13 and older. A public release serving children under 13 would require a dedicated parental-consent and child-privacy compliance process before collecting personal information.

Youth Safety

Safety comes before secrecy

If you are in immediate danger, someone is hurting you, or you may hurt yourself, use live help instead of waiting for an app response. In the U.S., call or text 988 for crisis support or call 911 for immediate danger.

If you are currently in foster care

For safety concerns, consider contacting a trusted caseworker, attorney/GAL, CASA, foster-care ombudsman, teacher, counselor, caregiver, relative, or another trusted adult. The best contact depends on your situation and state.

Family searches and reunions

Do not arrange secret in-person meetings with unknown adults. Protect your address, placement location, school, phone number, and other identifying information. When appropriate, use verified agencies, trusted adults, or professional intermediaries.

Photos and private records

Think carefully before uploading documents containing Social Security numbers, medical identifiers, court numbers, addresses, or information about other children. Redact sensitive details when possible.

Mandatory reporting

The app itself is not a mandated reporter or emergency service. People you contact through outside organizations—such as teachers, clinicians, social workers, or other professionals—may have legal reporting duties depending on their role and location.

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Sign in to securely sync your profile, My Story entries, saved answers, and saved resources across devices.

📲 Install Living My Shadows

Use the app like a regular mobile or desktop app.
App

Install it to your Home Screen or desktop for faster access and a standalone app window.

Account & Profile

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My ProfileUpdate your role, state, and preferences.
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Privacy & SecurityControl how your information is stored and used.
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Notifications Personal Q&A updates and account notices.
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Saved ResourcesKeep helpful programs and organizations together.

Support & Information

Help & SupportApp help, questions, and support.
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Books & ReadingRecommended books, lived experience, and helpful reading.
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About Living My ShadowsOur mission and how the app works.
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Terms & PrivacyReview privacy and terms information.
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Youth SafetySafety guidance for youth, family searches, and sensitive information.
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Export My StoryDownload a copy of your story data.

Data & Preferences

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App LanguageEnglish (US)
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Dark ModePrototype theme is currently dark.
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Delete My DataPermanently delete story data on this device.

Safety

Living My Shadows should never replace a licensed professional, attorney, caseworker, or emergency service. Production content should be reviewed for youth safety and legal accuracy.

Welcome to Living My Shadows

Tell us who you are so the app can personalize questions, resources, and support.

Before you continue

Your name and state are optional. Account data can be cloud-synced when you sign in.